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People often ask, "Why have a funeral at all?" As a funeral home, we've seen firsthand how meaningful and healing a funeral can be for families and friends who are grieving. Funerals serve a vital purpose; they bring people together. It's important to have a sense of community support, shared stories and the presence of others who also care. All of these things can be a powerful source of comfort. We saw the painful effects of COVID when gatherings were banned and that connection was lost. Grief became heavier and lonelier, and harder to bear. Humans need connection, especially in times of loss. A funeral is much more than a ceremony; it's a ritual that says this person mattered. They mattered to their family, friends and their community. Seeing how many lives that person touched gives the family strength and reminds them that they're not alone. Funerals can also provide spiritual healing. For many they affirm that death is not the end, but a transition. Whether through religious traditions or personal rituals, funerals can speak to the deeper meaning of life and death, it's an offering of comfort using one's belief, whatever that belief may be. Stories shared at funerals keep memories of the deceased alive. Often stories reveal a side of a person the family never knew, creating new connections to their loved one even after they're gone. That collective storytelling is part of the healing process. Everyone processes grief differently, but no one should go through grief alone. The simple acts which accompany a funeral include bringing food, "putting on the coffee", sitting with someone in silence, are deeply human and deeply healing. A funeral should reflect the unique life of the person being remembered. It's not just about mourning the death but about honoring a life. Each person leaves a mark on the world. That legacy deserves to be celebrated. A funeral is a time to celebrate that legacy. A funeral is not because someone died but because  someone lived.